The Ultimate First Date Blueprint

Great First Dates That Keep Her Coming Back For More

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Date: Sunday, May 20th, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16 U
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


When your first dates go great it means more dates, one… if not many wild nights ahead, and even a possible girlfriend. Either way, you have control of the situation and you decide what you want!

But when a first date goes wrong it can be frustrating and confusing. It can be almost impossible to tell when and why your date is suddenly not going go good anymore. Your date may excuse herself to leave early, she may not want to kiss, or she’s become cold and unfriendly.

And worst of all, you might not even realize something went wrong until a day or two later, when it’s too late and she is no longer returning your phone calls or texts.

And there is a laundry list of choices to consider…

What is the best activity to do? Where should you to go? How should you to dress? And how do you make your time together lead towards dating and sex, and not just being friends?

As I work with more and more men in New York City, helping them create their ideal lives with women, I see an overwhelming number of them making small but extremely dangerous mistakes on their first dates.

But planning an amazing first date, second date, and beyond is very simple and anyone can do it. You just need a good blueprint.

So on Sunday, May 13th I’ll show you…

  • How to plan the perfect date step-by-step, plus my top 3 favorite date ideas and my top 10 best places in New York to take your dates
  • Discover why women cancel dates or don’t show up and the one simple thing you can do early on to prevent this from happening.
  • The 3 most common bad dates and why they will bore the crap out of any woman and ruin your chances for good! (chances are you’ve already gone out on a terrible date like this many times before)
  • My best conversation topics for dates (what you should, and should NOT be talking about if you want her sexually to interested in you by the end of the night)
  • Step-by-step how to get physical and intimate on your first date. (This is important. If you don’t move fast enough she’ll think you’re a wuss. If you move too quickly you risk looking too aggressive – learn the perfect pace to move forward at.)
  • 3 creative excuses to easily get her back to your place at the end of the night and do it without rejection!
  • How to end the date to make sure you stay on her mind and she wants to see you again (plus, the RIGHT way to go about planning a followup date).

And much more!

Plus I’m bringing in the experts…

My friend Seth May is a professional improv coach. He has mastered first dates and, like me, he’s developed his own effective first-date system.

Seth will show you…

  • How to mentally prepare for the date and what you MUST be aware of before you meet her (plus 3 “game-day” exercises that get you in top game shape).
  • The importance of the first 5 minutes of a date, why this crucial time period is often the make-or-break time, and how to make sure the date gets off to a great start!
  • Fun, original, and interesting games and conversation topics that will make her time with you a blast and totally unforgettable.

Finally, I’m bringing in my good friend, celebrity stylist David Aames. David’s work has been published internationally in major fashion magazines and he has been profiled in the Vogue – an unheard of accomplishment for a stylist.

This alone is an incredible opportunity for you to get world class fashion advice at a price you may never be offered again.

David will show you…

  • What clothing tells a woman about what type of man you really are and how you can communicate important information without even opening your mouth!
  • How your style communicates the tone of the date (dressing for sex vs. dressing for a relationship vs. dress to just be friends).
  • The top 3 big date fashion mistakes men make that hurt their chances of success on a first date.
  • David’s private Rolodex of the top places to shop in New York City at bargain prices that few men know about (plus, which stores to avoid at all costs!)

And much more!

So join me for this one-time seminar so you can master your first dates.

I’ve done the failing and experimenting for you. It took me years of dumb mistakes to finally turn my bad dates around, and now I’m going to show you how you exactly how I did it in this one-time seminar.

Mastering your first dates is easy, anyone can do it, and it won’t just erase all your current problems and frustrations. You will enjoy wild nights of unforgettable fun with great women that you can see again and again, if you decide to.

If you’ve already lost a girl to a bad first date then one is enough! It’s tough to get so far with a woman who is obviously interested in you (or else she wouldn’t be meeting you for a date) and then lose her because of a few small mistakes or a bad gameplan.

Screw “going it alone.” If a woman is interested enough to meet you for a first date then there is no reason you should not be seeing her many, many times after.

Looking forward to it seeing you there!

- Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder

P.S. At 6PM there will be a free 30-Minute “Round Table” Coaching Session and free pizza to the first people who arrive. Round table means you don’t get just free advice, but you can give advice to other members too!

*You SAVE 20% OFF when you RSVP and pay below, or you can pay $25 cash at the door. Only 30 seats available. Email Craig Miller at craig@gothamclubnyc.com for more info. Please RSVP and pay below to save your spot and get the discounted “early bird” rate:

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Nightlife Insider Dating Secrets

Your Ultimate Guide to Meeting Beautiful Women at Bars And Clubs

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Date: Sunday, April 29th, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16O
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


If you’ve been out to any of the bars, clubs, restaurants, or lounges of NYC then you probably already know they can be incredible places to find the most beautiful women in the world… if you know where to look and what to do.

But without the right “insider secrets” these types of women can be impossible to find, let alone talking to them or even getting a date. Which are the hot new places? How do you get in? What is the right way to handle yourself in a nightclub to attract a stunningly beautiful woman?

There are many intimidating roadblocks between you and the women you want and even more frustrating mistakes that can be ruining your chances, often without you even knowing it.

But this Sunday, April 29th I’m going to show you step-by-step how to navigate your way through New York nightlife and I’m bringing in the big guns to reveal to you the biggest secrets, tips, and tricks to have a handle on nightlife dating that few men will ever possess.

Soon, you won’t just start meeting more beautiful women, you’ll impress your friends and co-workers with your new-found knowledge of the coolest places to see and be seen in around town, as you become the new “go to guy” for advice on bars and restaurants.

And soon you’ll increase your social circle as you start to meet more people around town and you’ll have a top-notch list of the best date places in New York… women will no doubt be impressed. They LOVE cool, new places and if you’re their personal tour guide they will instantly see you as more attractive and an important part of their lives and lifestyle.

Here are just a few of the powerful secrets I’ll share with you…

  • How to handle anxiety and “sweaty palms” that come up when you see a woman you want to talk to (especially stunningly beautiful 9′s and 10′s). Never avoid taking to a woman again!
  • The weird way I discovered to start conversations that is so successful, just knowing it will instantly give you more confidence. (This discovery is so powerful that two coaches I hired to teach me ended up stealing it from me!) Effortlessly talk to any woman, any time, in nearly any situation you can imagine.
  • My personal list of the little-known newest and best places in New York City night life (these venues are hard to find and are often only frequented by beautiful women for a short time, so act fast while you have this insider knowledge!)
  • Why meeting women during the night at a bar or club is very different than during the day at a cafe or bookstore (plus the 3 rules of nightlife dating you must know to avoid painful failure)
  • Tips and tricks to strike up conversations with the most beautiful women at any bar (even if she’s surrounded by other men clawing for her attention, or is seated on the insider corner of a table with other people). By the end of this seminar you will be able to handle nearly any scenario confidently.
  • The mini-guide to one-night-stands: how to find the right women for a one-night-stand, 3 giant warning signs you cannot ignore that will destroy your chances, and step-by-step how to get her back to your place.)
  • A full overview of my entire nightlife system, A-to-Z, to meet the women you want and make sure you seem then again. You’ll never end up “just some guy I met in the bar” to another woman again.

And much more!

Next, elite club promotion company owners Zack and Chris “Hollywood” who will reveal insider nightclub secrets that few New York men outside of their tight-nit social group know. Secrets so closely guarded that they have only agree to speak under the condition that their real names be withheld and because these secrets apply to certain bars and nightclubs in the city that you do not share this information online ANYWHERE.

As long as you’re on board, here are the big secrets I’ve pushed Zack and Chris into revealing…

Tips, tricks, and secrets to access and navigate the most exclusive clubs and lounges in New York, and gain access to private areas where you’ll find “cover model” quality women that most men only fantasize about.

  • Zack’s personal top picks for the best places to meet the most stunning women, and your best plan step-by-step for getting into each of these places.
  • Never again be stuck outside waiting in the “loser line” of people who can’t get into a club and who the doorman regularly ignores. Learn exactly how to catch any doorman’s ears and eyes and get the VIP treatment that only a few select individuals receive (plus, how you can still get into a club even if you have no women and are bringing two, even three guys in with you!).
  • The proper body language, etiquette, and style for New York nightlife to make sure people start treating you like a true insider and catch the eye of the most beautiful models, actresses, and socialites at these venues.
  • Insider language and “lingo” you can use to get into the “in-crowd” of nightlife. Like any insider group, people can tell who’s the real deal by how you TALK, and if you’re not using the right words – it will be a giant red flag to others. Impress your friends and beautiful women with your deep knowledge of nightlife “lingo.”
  • How to build a strong social circle filled with beautiful women and well connected men who come out with you almost “on-demand” whenever you want and will impress anyone watching and gain you access to even the toughest clubs (in many cases the clubs with actually PAY you to come and buy your drinks!)And much more!And finally, top dance coach Michael H. will show you how to attract women on the dance floor and be a better dancer than 95% of men out there in just 15 minutes flat.

    Even if you have NO rhythm, Mike will teach you the moves to turn her on by dancing with her without even saying a word.

    Have you ever entered a club or bar where it was too loud to talk? Smart men use their dance-floor skills to get the women they want in these situations and now you can too.

    Navigating New York nightlife can feel intimidating, overwhelming and confusing. With so many places to go, so many “secret policies” and insider tricks, and other men to compete with it can be challenging to meet (and attract) the women you want.

    Figuring out these secrets on your own can take years of painful failure, and without expert guidance and hell of a lotta luck most men will never discover how this system works… and to be honest, the men with all the power and the women in New York want it that way!

    Join me and my very special guests on Sunday, April 29th and get on the fast track to mastering the bar and club scene in less than two hours and let us share our years of knowledge, hard work, and discoveries with you in this one-a-year seminar.

    Looking forward to it seeing you there!

    - Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder

    *You SAVE 20% OFF when you RSVP and pay below, or you can pay $25 cash at the door. Only 30 seats available. Email Craig Miller at craig@gothamclubnyc.com for more info. Please RSVP and pay below to save your spot and get the discounted “early bird” rate:

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Catch a Woman’s Interest Using These Fitness and Style Secrets

Insider Shortcuts and Secrets For Looking So Good, Women Can’t Help But Notice You

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Date: Saturday, April 14th, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16O
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


If you’re well dressed and in shape, then women notice. A stylish man catches the attention of everyone around him – including beautiful women. He looks mature, he looks successful, he has his shit together, and no doubt, he’s naturally surrounded by women who are looking for a quality man.

But when your haircut is just standard, and you dress only moderately well, and are in less than great shape you only catch the attention of moderate women, both in looks and personality. And let’s be clear about one thing: If you’re reading this now then dating moderate women is not something that interests you!

If you’re dressed well and in great shape, then you have the best shot at attracting the women you want. You make a better first impression. You catch the eye of women in a room and soon you will have more options in women to date, you’ll naturally attract more attractive women, and meeting women will feel easier than it ever has.

And this bring us to The #1 Rule of Style… which is that most men think they are well dressed and in “good enough” shape, but only a person standing on the outside with a true stylish eye (and believe me, all beautiful women have that eye for style) can truthfully tell you how well you’re presented.

Understanding the style and fitness secrets that the most successful men use can be mysterious, confusing, and even impossible – after all, it’s almost a trade secret of the men who date the most beautiful women.

So I’d like to formally invite you to join me, Craig Miller, and two of my close friends here in New York City for this incredible once-a-year seminar on fitness and style to fully reveal these “trade secrets” to you once and for all…

First I’d like to introduce my friend Mario Roca. Born and raised in Brooklyn, Mario has been involved in body-building and fitness for nearly 25 years. He’s a certified personal trainer through the National Academy of Health & Fitness (NAHF) and is deemed “Mr. Exercise” by Exercise For Men Magazine. Mario has been featured in top body-building and fitness magazines including Flex, Men’s Fitness, Natural Body Building & Fitness, Ironman, The NY Daily News and more.

If you want to lose excess flab or belly fat, or you’re looking to get that cut “6-Pack” look women can’t keep their hands off of, Mario has the secrets and shortcuts to make it happen.

Just in time for the fast-approaching beach season, Mario will reveal the top 10 secrets he’s discovered over almost 25 years of experience to maximize your fat loss, get cut, and get a body a woman is so eager to see she’ll be taking your shirt of the first second she get’s you alone.

Mario will show you how to…

  • What do women honestly and truthfully want a man to look like? Is being skinny a turnoff? Do big muscles get all the girls? Plus, discover which body types are ideal for attracting certain types of women and what your ideal body type is for maximum attraction to the opposite sex.
  • Why getting “ripped” isn’t just about lifting heavy weights. Learn the strategic exercises you can now use to build muscle twice as fast with less effort.
  • Why resting and “pausing” during a workout is key to a great body and over-working can actually destroy the results you should be getting.
  • How to show off your body in a way that turns a woman on and gets her thinking about sex all night and all the way back to your apartment (just imagine what sort of impact this will have on your sex life). And do it without looking cocky or egotistical.
  • Simple eating secrets to fuel your muscle growth while burning off pounds of fat (even if you’re butt is stuck in an office chair all day long). Note: Avoiding these important “6-pack rules” can ruin all your progress and hard work at the gym if you’re not eating strategic foods at strategic times.

And much more!

You will leave this seminar will a game plan for success that includes a workout and eating shortcuts for maximum impact as fast as possible and just in time for beach season!

Next I’d like to introduce my good friend David Aimes. David is hands-down one of the most successful stylists currently living in New York City, and has been recently featured in Vogue, which is virtually-unheard-of success for a stylist. A man who has not just transformed his own personal success with women using fashion and style, David understands how style impacts a woman’s decision to choose one man over another.

David lives a busy life on-set on photo shoots styling models for magazines and editorial work, but I was able to convince him to lend you a small amount of his time to share with you his biggest secrets for dressing smart and successful and catching the eye of the women you want. David will show you…

  • Why fashion and flirting go hand-in-hand and how you can use clothing to tell women an incredible story about you, even if you never open your mouth! (Plus, how your current style is telling women bad things about you that will turn her off.)
  • The 5 most common “Fashion Identities” used by celebrities and successful men around the world today, why these identities work, what type of when they attract, and what you need to start using them today.
  • How to specifically coordinate your wardrobe step-by-step to attract your dreamgirl on autopilot, so that when you’re walking on the street, are riding the subway, or are in a bar, she will notice you… and sometimes even make the first move, because you’re exactly what she’s been waiting for!
  • Build curiosity and interest in the women who see you using style, and how you can use little tricks to stick out, even in a party where Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are the center of attention. (And how to do this right so you don’t make a fool of yourself trying to pull it off)
  • Secret stores, little-known markets and online sites to get incredible deals on clothing, shoes and accessories (NOTE: Most “discount” stores sell terrible clothing, do not attempt to find deals unless you have David’s advice to guide you!)
  • The 10 big takeaways from this seminar you can use with your next date or with friends at a party to impress anyone and make you look like an instant fashion expert and well-cultured man.
  • And much more!

    David will make sure that by the end of this seminar, you can talk fashion with the elite of New York and will even impress models and designs with your new knowledge, and you will have a new-found internal sense of how to dress yourself and understand the basic rules that every man must know for looking good and attracting the women you want.

    Because going it alone can be nearly impossible to figure out. Unfortunately, there is no user’s manual that comes with online dating, and most of the “free advice” is ineffective, if not actually harmful to you!

    So join Mario, David and I Saturday, April 14th at 6:30PM where we will reveal our best kept secrets to let your personal style and body-type naturally attract the women you truly want.

    Because figuring these secrets out on your own could take years of stressful and frustration trial-and-error, let’s the experts show you exactly what you need to know during this once-a-year seminar. See you there.

    - Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder

    *You SAVE 20% OFF when you RSVP and pay below, or you can pay $25 cash at the door. Only 30 seats available. Email Craig Miller at craig@gothamclubnyc.com for more info. Please RSVP and pay below to save your spot and get the discounted “early bird” rate:

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Finally, Master Online Dating!

Proven Step-by-Step Secrets For Incredible Online Dating Results

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Date: Sunday, March 25th, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16U
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


Online dating is an incredible opportunity to meet women. If you don’t like going out to bars and clubs or you live a busy life, then you can easily start dating from your home or even your cellphone and do it late at night, on your way to work, or even during your lunch break.

And if you’re already meeting women at bars, why turn down an easy, low-time opportunity to meet more women and increase your chances of finding that girl who truly is a great match for you!

But done wrong, online dating can be frustrating, confusing, and feel like a complete waste of time. If you’re sending out messages and getting little or no response, or if you’re just not meeting the quality of women you truly desire, it can be almost impossible to figure out where you’re going wrong.

Here are just a few of the common frustrations…

  • Is the message you sent offensive, lame, or boring?
  • Is something wrong on your profile or is something missing?
  • Do you have the all right pictures?

Worse, you could be a truly great guy that women would love to meet, but if you don’t demonstrate it using the right strategies then those women will never have a chance to get to know you.

Take it from me! After incredible internet dating success years ago, I hit a year long draught and declared to my friends that internet dating sites “don’t work” anymore (and I consider myself to be a good looking guy), but that was until I heard all the success stories my friend Jason Debesciak was having.

And shortly after I convinced him to re-write my profile, I received a shocking email from the online dating service I was using, notifying me that I had one of the most view profiles in all of New York City and I would only be shown only the highest quality women on the site from then!

Jason already had my seal of approval, but after this my jaw dropped. And since then he’s gone on to blow the minds of many members of the Gotham Dating Club by getting them similar results. Here’s the exact email they sent me…

Hey Ho*********22,

We just detected that you’re now among the most attractive people on OkCupid.

We learned this from clicks to your profile and reactions to you in Quickmatch and Quiver. Did you get a new haircut or something?
Well, it’s working!

To celebrate, we’ve adjusted your OkCupid experience:

You’ll see more attractive people in your match results.

Pretty incredible.

If you’re ready to let Jason’s magic wear off on you just as the warm weather is approaching and those girls start to put on those unbelievably short, sexy dresses and start searching the city (and of course, online dating sites) for some fun, then you’ll want to be at Jason’s once-a-year seminar this Sunday, March 25th.

Jason will reveal his step-by-step system, and by the end of this information-packed seminar you’ll know exactly how…

  • How you can meet 10-15 new women each week from your home computer or cellphone without busting your butt in the dead-cold of winter, bothering with loud clubs and bars, or worrying about “what to say” or any of the frustrations or anxieties that come with trying to approach women you don’t know.
  • How to create a profile that works for you even while you’re sleeping! Here in the “city the never sleeps” women are always looking for a great guy, and if you’re profile hits the mark, new messages will pour in at all hours.
  • Is your profile picture sending women the wrong message? Learn what makes the perfect profile picture that gets women clicking on your name! (Plus, which three types of photos are the absolute best to use for online dating.)
  • How to evaluate women who send you messages. Learn the secrets to tell if her photos are real and current, and if she is worth your time and is a “quality” woman.
  • Exact “Copy-And-Paste” messages you can start sending women immediately to boost your response rate up to 10x’s what it is now! Plus, templates and guidelines for creating your own great original messages.
  • Jason’s proven formula for follow-up messages, building great rapport and connection, planning the date, and getting her number… and doing it simply, fast, and powerfully.
  • What you absolutely must demonstrate (and tell to a woman) that will let her know it’s safe to meet you in person. Believe it or not, the #1 objection women have to meeting men online is that they are worried about their safety.

And much more!

Next I, Craig Miller, will take the stage to show you what I’ve learned over 5+ years of dating and tiresome trial and error. I’ll show you…

  • New ways most men don’t even know about to get women engaged on online dating sites (and to make yourself stick out from the crowd).
  • A simple, but fun trick to figure out if a woman is interested in having a one night stand (even if she would never openly admit it… or even if she flat out denies it on her profile!)
  • My personal list of best date spots in New York City to meet any girl from online dating that won’t just boost your chances of romance, but will have her thinking “this guy knows all the cool spots in town!”
  • The absolute worse messages to send women! I learned this from a private sit-down conversation I had with the creator of the website OKCupid.com, and he revealed to me the private data he has about what works and what doesn’t.

And much more!

Again, just to double-confirm, this is the only online dating seminar that Gotham Dating Club will feature this year. So don’t miss the incredible opportunity to meet more women, have more dates, and cast the net to find that girl who is right for you!

Because going it alone can be nearly impossible to figure out. Unfortunately, there is no user’s manual that comes with online dating, and most of the “free advice” is ineffective, if not actually harmful to you!

So join Jason Debesciak and I Sunday, March 25th at 6:30PM where we will reveal our best kept secrets this Sunday.

- Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder

*You SAVE 20% OFF when you RSVP and pay below, or you can pay $25 cash at the door. Only 30 seats available. Email Craig Miller at craig@gothamclubnyc.com for more info. Please RSVP and pay below to save your spot and get the discounted “early bird” rate:

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Get What You Want

Secrets to Getting What You Want With Money, Women, And Life

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Date: Sunday, February 26th, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16K
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


Some men just seem to have it all. They have an effortless ability to attract gorgeous women, they are set for life with money, friends, and happiness. It might even feel unfair to you that they have so such an easy time getting what they want.

And it might feel like your hard work and efforts aren’t bringing you any closer to where they are. It may feel like one or more of areas of your life are totally not good enough. And comparing yourself to a close friend or others around you who already have that success can be frustrating… Why don’t you have everything they have? How did they get it? How can you get it too?

The good news is you’re not the only one asking these questions. Myself and two other experts who have excelled in getting what they want in life will be showing you our simple methods for success… it’s not luck and it’s not magic and it’s not endlessly long hours of work.

What you’re about to discover are practical techniques you can put in to action the very same day you learn them.

First, I’ll show you the universal rules I’ve discovered that have helped me most not just with my dating life but in all areas of my life. These secrets will allow you to…

  • Have that “it man” confidence and charisma that both women and men feel and wonder why you’re so comfortable, happy and satisfied in your life (this will make you more attractive, interesting, and make others eager to spend time with you).
  • Never be needy with women again and never feel like you’re an outsider to any social event, party, or group of people. Learn to create your own fun and never see the grass on the other side as greener.
  • 3 practical techniques for finding motivation to accomplish goals you’ve left sitting on the table for ages.
  • How to plan out your life and make room for more success, more women, and more money (this might sound strange, but this is one of the KEY REASONS people don’t get what they want)

And more much!

Next I’ll bring to the stage a long time friend and incredibly brilliant and successful entrepreneur (and ladies man) Josh S. Josh has both an MBA and PhD, he is an accomplish researcher and artist, and he leads leadership development seminars at Ivy League business schools and universities.

Past audiences have praised Josh as “an articulate and knowledgeable speaker with a masterful understanding of human (particularly female) psychology” and that his life-changing system is “pretty impressive stuff, I can see this echoes the stories of many very successful people.”

Josh and I have spent quite a bit of time making sure he reveals his most powerful secrets during this seminar. Secrets like…

  • The principles and systems that the most successful people use in favor of repetitive routines, mechanical-sounding lines, or other unnatural ways of living life and communicating with others.
  • The blueprint of a millionaire deconstructed. How to step-by-step replicate the success of men who have who have it all in business and with women.
  • 3 practical wealth-building exercises you can use immediately to attract money and women into your life (regardless of your current situation)
  • How to re-program your brain for success. Most people’s ideas about success are flawed and only keep your wheels spinning in neutral (this is great for people who feel stuck, at a plateau, or know their results should be better).

And much more!

And finally I’ll introduce you to friend Johnny Smoke. Johnny is an artist and international entrepreneur. His success began by understanding what he really wanted. For John, amazing people, money, global travel, and your life adventure begins with knowing what YOU want! During the seminar he will discuss “Clarifying Your Quality Results” and engaging “Your Desired Experiences.”

Just how you’ve spent years narrowing down your favorite food, you can test, question, and refine everything else you want in life in a similar way. And once you figure that out (with John’s expert help), as Lady Gaga says, “I continuously lie to myself until it becomes true”. John will lead you through a series of practical exercises to help you dig deep, find your own motivation in life, and turn your ideas and desires into reality.

So if this past week, month, year, or even for longer you’ve felt unsatisfied with your progress in any area of your life or you’ve felt stuck or on a plateau or you just want more than you’re getting now than I highly recommend you attend this seminar.

Getting what you want (and enjoying the path to getting it) is what makes life fun and worth living. Your success can attract great friends, beautiful women, and unforgettable life experiences.

Trying to find the path alone can feel like walking through a cave without a flashlight. The advice you get from friends, books, and in the internet could be wrong or unhelpful, only sending you deeper into the cave and farther from getting what you want.

Join me Sunday, February 26th at 6:30PM and together Josh and I will show you a proven path to get what you want… and to KEEP GETTING IT!

- Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder

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Gotham Club Presents Adam Lyons

World-Famous Expert and Ladies Man in Town For One Night Only to Show You His Biggest Secrets!

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Date: Sunday, February 12th, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16Q
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
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craig miller Gotham Club Presents Adam Lyons Hey it’s Craig Miller! I’d like to take the focus away from myself and put the spotlight on my good friend Adam Lyons, who is one of the top dating experts (and most impressive ladies men) I’ve ever met. Many, including myself, recognize Adam as one of the world’s top 3 experts in dating and attraction. He is an author for Ask Men and has appeared in FHM, Maxim, the New York Post, and more. Weirdly, Adam started off as awful at dating. In highschool his classmates voted him “Least Likely To Ever Get A Girlfriend.” Adam was down on his luck, depressed and unsure of what to do next.

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Adam is one of my "Top 3 Experts" worldwide. Your only chance all year to see him is at this seminar.

But he was 100% ready to make a change. He told me, “I tried everything I could think of to understand women – I even used my psychology notes from college and read journals about female psychology. And since then, I’ve been able to crack the code and now I’m not just recognized as a Member of the American Psychological Association, I’ve actually gone out bars and cafes and tested all of the methods and ideas available and proved what works and what doesn’t.”

Adam lives a lifestyle that many men dream of. He’s dated celebrities, models and all types of incredibly beautiful women. He was well known for arriving at parties with an entourage of at least 40 women, which is a way of life second only to Hugh Hefner. And he did it all without exceptional looks, being in good physical shape, and with very little money… heck, he’s even met his dream girl while doing it. Adam has truly done it all.

I’d like to invite you to join me and my special guest Adam Lyons on Sunday, February 12th at 6:30PM for an incredible, information-packed seminar.

Once you understand Adam’s secrets, you’ll use them wherever and whenever you want… and on any woman you want. You’ll never be “alone” out there in the dating world or confused about what to say or do next, and you’ll have the confidence and a practical method to talk to any woman you see. You truly CHOOSE the woman you want to date instead of settling for whatever comes around next.

Adam will brake down his secrets into a step-by-step method that he has successfully taught to students around the world. Adam says, “The scary part about this is how easy dating is once you see the secrets I’ve discovered. They say that dating is a game… and I’m going to show you how to bend the rules.”

Come to Adam’s seminar on February 12th (right in time for Valentines Day!) Adam is one of my top 2 favorite speakers I’ve ever seen live and I GUARANTEE you’ll learn a lot and leave inspired and motivated to get what you want and you’ll have a practical system to do it!

Don’t miss this opportunity. Adam only comes once a year, so this is an incredible opportunity for you to learn from one of the best out there – I HIGHLY recommend this! Limited space so register ASAP below to guarantee your spot.

- Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder

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Secrets to A Great Conversation

Have More a Conversations That Lead to Dates Instead of Rejection or Ending Up “Just Friends”

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Date: Sunday, January 22nd, 2012
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16E
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


A great conversation with a cute woman can leave you walking on air. It can make your entire week better, it can give you more confidence, and it can land you a date (or many dates) with a girl, get you laid, and even be the difference in you finding a new great girlfriend or your future wife…

But most of the time conversations don’t go this well. One minute she might be smiling and laughing and then for some strange reason she’s ignoring your calls and texts. How can she be so into you one minute and pretending like you don’t exist the next?

Or maybe your conversation turns boring or goes stale, and you can feel it, she’s not having that much fun, and soon she excuses herself to “go to the bathroom” or a number of other excuses you might have heard before.

Or worst of all – the conversation goes great, you keep talking almost every day, and soon you find this beautiful girl complaining to you about OTHER men she wants to sleep with. And just like that, you find yourself stuck in the “Friend Zone”… and now she’s never going to sleep with you, because in her mind you’re just “not that kind of guy.” Ouch!

But one thing is FOR SURE. Whether you want a girlfriend or just to get laid, your chances depend heavily on how well the conversation goes. If it turns boring or if it’s just missing one of a few key “secret ingredients” your conversation won’t go well.

And She Won’t Be Giving You a Second Chance – That’s For Sure!

These problems are normal and have happened many times to even the best ladies men out there, but the good news is each and every one of these annoying problems is CAUSED by what you say during your first conversation – so if you can fix that, you fix everything!

And if you follow my 3 keys to a great conversation these pain-in-the-butt annoyances will start to disappear. Here’s everything you’ll learn in detail…

  • My “Rejection Proof” conversation starting technique – she’ll never get the chance to turn you down and this works almost every time. This is so effective that just knowing it will give you more confidence around women.
  • Be so interesting and entertaining she gets hooked from the start and will often ditch her friends and ignore phone calls for fear that you’ll walk off and she’ll never see you again.
  • How to steer your relationship with her in the direction YOU want from the very beginning instead of letting her call the shots… this means you’ll end up her romantic interest and NEVER just a friend.
  • Create a deep connection with her by being a man who understands her on a deeper level then most other men she’s ever met – women CRAVE this and its HARD for them to find, so when you do this right YOU’RE IN!
  • 3 Easy checkpoints to follow to turn any average “friendly” conversation into a flirtatious romance that ends with a date or even a one-night stand.
  • How to setup a date and get her number in the right way so that she’s not ignoring your calls, texts, or cancelling your dates. (9.5 out of 10 men make three very big mistakes during this process that creates endless frustrations!)
  • The Inner-Game of conversation – powerful mindsets that will change your conversations forever – not just with women but everyone you meet!

And that’s not all!

Insider “Playboy Playmate” Secrets

I’ve learned a lot of secrets, tips, and tricks in my past 7 years of dating experience, but this seminar wouldn’t be complete if I didn’t bring in the big-guns… so my friend and very skilled ladies man (he’s slept with a Playboy Playmate of The Year, amongst other astonishing accomplishments) Alexander will take to the stage.

Alex will reveal to you…

  • The simple but incredibly effective formula he discovered to create a deep connection from a woman using conversation. This makes dating, flirting, and getting laid incredibly easy – just follow this formula and you’re SET!
  • Alex’s shocking story of how he went from college nerd to being so incredble with women he’s been able to sleep with a Playboy Playmate – and how he’s been able to be himself, be authentic, and still get what he wants without games, tricks, or lying.
  • Live demonstrations of his conversation formula, tons of real-life examples, and the 3 rules you need to know to start using this right away.
  • Alex’s famous story of how he bedding a Playboy Playmate, plus a step-by-step breakdown of how he did it and why he owes it all to his conversation formula
  • Plus new cutting-edge conversation secrets Alex has developed that he asked me not to share on this webpage but will be revealed to attendees of the seminar.

Without a great conversation, there is almost no shot at having any sort of relationship with the girl. The conversation absolute MUST go well for you to event have a shot!

This incredibly important topic will drastically changed your detail results and put you back in the drivers so you’re the one decided if you want to date her and what relationship you want. Conversations will be covered in detail by Alex and I from A-Z, and all your most pressing questions will be answered.

Turn Your Conversations Around 180 Today

Register below now before seats fill up.

Date: Sunday, January 22nd, 2012 at 6:30PM.

- Craig Miller, Gotham Dating Club Founder

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Brad P Returns to New York City

After 3 Years The #1 Rated Expert Returns to NYC -One Night Only!

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Date: Tuesday, January 3rd, 2012
Time: 7:00pm – 9:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 10D
Price:$29.95* (early sign-up discount only)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


For the first time in 3 years Brad P. returns to New York City.

Rated the #1 dating expert in the world in 2010, Brad is easily one of the top speakers you’ll ever see if your life… not just in the dating advice field but across all fields.

Unlike other experts who learned what they know from other gurus and coaches, Brad discovered everything from pure willpower and experimentation over a 3 year period travelling across the country with a rock band.

Brad has now become infamous for his direct and hilarious approach that women can’t seem to resist and it has gained him a bulletproof reputation for sleeping with the hottest women and doing it in some very wild situations…

Brad is incredibly fast with his sexual escalation and in some cases he is able to get women into a sexual situation in just 10-20 minutes after meeting them. As one student described, his coaching session with Brad actually ended in a threesome.

Unfortunately Brad likes to keep a low profile so he has no videos on the internet anywhere and no video seminars for sale period.

In addition, Brad lives in LA and has not travelled back to New York for a seminar in over 3 years.

This is truly a DO NOT MISS event.

Like Mystery and Niel Strauss, very soon Brad will be too big to do these local seminars and will be burnt out from all the presentations he’s done. This is your last chance to see him live and in person for another 3+ years if not much longer.

And on Tuesday, January 3rd at 7:00PM the Gotham Dating Club invite Brad P. in for a one-time seminar to personally show you…

    • Brad’s legendary best openers of all time… these ballsy, yet hilarious lines and techniques to start a conversation with a woman that work 95% of the time for almost anyone who tries them (even if you’re just getting started or are dead-nervous to talk to women)
    • Physical escalation secrets from a master… How to get a girl turned on and ready for sex in under 15 minutes (plus if you’re lucky Brad will reveal his 5 Minute “Bathroom Pull” technique)
    • Brad’s best NEW discoveries of 2011… the best new techniques to start a conversation, the best techniques to get laid more, and the best techniques to have an incredible sex life this year!
    • BONUS free personal evaluation available when you attend the to the event. Brad will personally review your goals and lifestyle and then tell you exactly what to do step-by-step (we’re talking really personalized advice here) to get you on the path to success instantly
    • Get answers to your toughest questions! Get your questions answered by the master of dating and getting laid… you won’t get a better answer from anyone else!

If you’re feeling stuck or that the advice you’ve gotten so far just isn’t doing the trick then you do not want to miss this one-time seminar with Brad.

See you Tuesday January 3rd at 7:00PM SHARP.

Since this is a *high-demand* event please register as soon as possible and show up to the event at least 20 minutes in advance.

Register early for a discount and guaranteed seats. If you do not register early you cannot be guaranteed seating at this event.

Note: NO RECORDING of this event is allow. Thanks for cooperating with these guidelines, rarely do I have the chance to host a speaker this big to present for you! Please RSVP and pay below to secure your spot.

- Craig Miller, Gotham Dating Club Founder

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Meeting Women During the Day

Learn From 3 Experts How To Meet Women in Parks, Cafes, And On The Street!

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Date: Sunday, December 4th, 2011
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16L
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


You probably see more hot women in New York City in one week than you could date in a lifetime. And if you just knew how to start conversations with a few of those women each week then you’d be set for life.

And standing on the sidelines watching a sexy girl walk past you… and out of your life for good is frustrating – it can stay on your mind nagging you the entire day. And when you finally think of the perfect thing to say it’s hours later and completely useless.

Well on Sunday, December 4th I’m bringing in the experts to give you the game plan so you can master meeting women anywhere in New York City and you don’t have to deal with any of these lame frustrations again.

First Craig Miller, Gotham Club Founder (that’s me) will be revealing the 5 keys to easily meeting women in New York City…

  • The little-known (but incredibly successful) places you can go to meet women – including casual spots where you can take your time and easily approach women who are out alone and not with a giant intimidating group of friends
  • A smooth and rejection proof way to start a conversation with a woman anywhere (this technique alone is so successful I’ve had 3 of my own mentors steal it from me!)
  • The 3 steps you MUST take to stop a flaky dates and phone numbers so she’s not avoiding your calls or cancelling your dates

And much more! Next, I’m bringing in expert Sasha D. who is world famous in London for his ability to meet women anywhere during the day. His co-coach Janson will take the stage first discussing everything he’s learned over 5 his years of experience.

Janson spent several years being the “friend” in several female social circles. This enabled him to gain their trust, and learn the inner secrets that women would never allow to fall into the hands of men. This has led Janson to develop a keen understanding of the female mind. After years of being perceived as a chump – Janson has build up an unparralelled understanding of female psychology – allowing him to have tremendous success with women. Sasha has described Janson’s understanding of the female mind “Eerie – you have to witness is to believe it!”

Janson will show you…

  • How to tell if a woman wants to sleep with you fast (a la one-night stand) or wants a slower approach
  • How to communicated better with women by knowing the female thought process
  • Decoding the true meaning behind what a woman really means when she says something
  • Creating a magical sexual “experience” with a women while avoiding society’s negative programming about sex
  • How to read a woman’s actions… everything a woman does ALWAYS means something, now it will be like reading her mind

After Janson’s talk you will never again have to ask a woman…

1. Why are you doing that?
2. What’s wrong?
3. Did I do something wrong?
4. What do you want?

Finally Sasha will take the stage. Here’s Sasha’s background…

Sasha was introduced to the “self help” field in the late 1990’s. Although exposed to the theories of social dynamics at a very young age, Sasha focused his time and energy building his skills as a stand up comedian for the next decade. Around 2006 he decided to finally take his dating skills into his own hands got heavily into self improvement and dating.

Sasha spent thousands of hours chatting up beautiful women in the UK, Europe and overseas. Eventually he developed his own unique system – a method which has been described as “insane fun” and revolves around completely eradicating pre-conceived social fears first, and then meeting beautiful girls soon after!

Sasha will show you…

  • Why Fun is attractive, and how get women to think of you as “The Fun Guy”
  • How focusing on one thing can destroy approach anxiety and fear of rejection
  • Why you don’t have to be funny or entertaining to get women to like you
  • How to go from casual flirting into sexual seducing smoothly and easily (and without rejection!)
  • How to connect with women and make the feel appreciated (this is what is going to get her to fall in love with you, rather than just be casual)
  • How “good karma” gets you laid

Sasha has just embarked on a year long global trek to spread his teachings across the world and this is his first and only trip to New York City… and he won’t get a chance to come back any time soon.

So sign up and don’t miss this opportunity to see a world class expert speak!

Looking forward to seeing you Sunday, December 4th at 6:30PM.

Fill out the form below to register your spot now and get a 20% OFF “early bird” discount on the price when you pay online today.

- Craig Miller, Gotham Dating Club Founder

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Success in Business and Dating

Learn Step-by-Step How to Build a Jet-setter Lifestyle To Make More Money And Travel the World with Beautiful Women By Your Side!

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Date: Saturday, November 19th, 2011
Time: 6:30pm – 8:30pm
Location: RG Studios, 520 8th Ave.
Floor/Room: 16K
Price:$19.95* (early sign-up discount)
For more information email events@gothamclubnyc.com


Attracting women is only part of living a jet-setter lifestyle in which you can travel, date, and make money flexibly, fun and easily, while designing a truly happy life where you are doing what you want with the women you want when you want… whether that’s on an exotic Island with a swimsuit model or enjoying wine in Europe with a Harvard-educated beauty.

But struggling with business and dating can often feel like an uphill battle where reaching success sometimes seems impossible and there is rarely any time to take a vacation. You might wonder when all the hard work is going to pay of and when you can finally slow down and stop running so hard on the “treadmill of work.” But this will all soon change…

On Saturday, November 19th at 6:30PM, world-wide business owner, author, and serial-vacationer Debonair Dave returns to New York City to reveal to you the he’s discovered about entrepreneurship, business, and women from his 15+ years in the Pickup Artist Community.

Once an average joe, Dave’s sex life and wealth were… well… pretty average, but he turned his life a full 180 degrees to success and now he’s going to show you the secrets he’s discovered and how you can use his same method to get the success you want.

During this one-time seminar Debonair Dave will show you…

  • Why you don’t have the success you want yet and what you MUST do to get it (In the past 15 years Dave has seen the pattern of what it REALLY takes to be a successful seducer and where others fail or relapse into failure)
  • Who the world’s REAL #1 pickup artist is, why he’s #1, and what you NEED to learn from him (hint: he’s been with more women then Hugh Hefner and his initials are G.K.)
  • The 5 types of global business leaders who on average have a net worth of $1 Billion (Which type are you? What did each of these men do to climb the ladder from where you are now to the top?)
  • What it takes to go from an employee to a world-conqueror with business and women, even if you’re just out of college (You’ll learn the meat of this simple concept in minutes)
  • The 2 questions that will save you 500 hours
    of wasted work this year (this is one of the things the separates financially successful men from the unsuccessful)
  • Little-known business opportunities that are only available IF you travel (most people don’t realize that going on vacation more often can help you make MORE money).
  • Proven paths to success you can follow to create a 7 figure income from scratch
  • The Secret to managing multiple relationships. Learn this now before the women keeping the women you meet happy consumes your life! (The key here is SURPRISINGLY similar to the strategy for business and wealth success)
  • Dave’s Same Day Online Lay method (In a new country or just want a fast encounter here in New York City? Dave’s done it and he’ll show you his entire method).
  • And Much More!

Cracking the code to making CEO-salary paycheck, finding free time to travel to exotic and beautiful new places, and attracting gorgeous “quality women” can be a daunting task to take on by yourself and many men never reach success… or give up trying.

Alone is not the way to go. Debonair Dave has put together this 100% totally unique and original seminar to get you there and reveal secrets about business that few other men will ever know.

Dave isn’t just living proof of that his method works, he’s also appeared on the Montel William Show, The Dr. Keith Ablow show, and starred in ABC’s reality series “Hooking Up” where he met and slept with a woman on live TV.

Dave’s talk will impact your sex life, your wealth, and your happiness guaranteed.

Looking forward to seeing you Saturday, November 19th at 6:30PM.

Fill out the form below to register your spot now and get a 20% OFF “early bird” discount on the price when you pay online today.

- Craig Miller, Gotham Dating Club Founder

*You SAVE 20% OFF when you RSVP and pay below, or you can pay $25 cash at the door. Only 30 seats available. Email Craig Miller at craig@gothamclubnyc.com for more info. Please RSVP and pay below to save your spot and get the discounted “early bird” rate:

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